Marriage

Pole Dancing

There is power in sensuality.  Men are captivated by women on a pole.  Until recently, pole practice was left to strippers.  Now women can take classes.  There is art in dance and it is a beautiful thing.  The art in pole dancing has a specific intent and the ad above attests to its intent – sensuality.  Pole dancing is used in strip clubs to tease men.  Fitness is an admirable objective.  Fitness with intent to harness sensuality for power over a man is not admirable.

There are many ways to stay physically fit.  Pole dancing, as this ad states, is about much more than fitness.  It is about women struggling to find confidence and power in their sexuality.  We are looking in the wrong place.  Emulating strippers will not give you the power to control the kind of relationship you really want with a man.  A relationship with a man should not be based on sensual control and teasing him sexually rarely leads to marriage.  If commitment and marriage are not your goal, then what is the purpose of the sensual power play?  Should we as women use our bodies for the thrill of power over men?

The ad goes on and it is very honest in selling the real intent of pole dancing – it’s not fitness.

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